Cindy Sheehan, the woman who lost her soldier son in Iraq, continues her protest at the gates of the Western White Hose. Story.
"We can be proud of our soldiers and ashamed of our government at the same time," said Tammara Rosenleaf, whose husband is stationed at Fort Hood and is to be deployed to Iraq this fall.
Can you say that? Surely. But can you say that while not contradicting yourself or, in the least, sending mixed messages? I don't believe so.
What does being proud of our soldiers mean? If we take proud to mean "[f]eling pleasurable satisfaction over an act," then to be proud of someone may easily mean feeling pleasurable satisfaction from an act of another. So, when a parent says that she is proud of her son, she means that she's pleasantly satisfied with some act of her son. Perhaps she means her son's grades, or some other achievement of his. To be proud of of our soldiers means experiencing a pleasurable satisfaction over an act they've done. It's a reasonable stretch to equate being proud in this sense to an act the soldiers are doing (as opposed to an act they did).
The control and command structure of our armed forces (that is our soldiers) is a responsive one. It responds to dictates from its commander-in-chief, the president of the United States. How then could one be proud of our soldiers, but ashamed of our president, the soldier's top commander? What I do believe the commenter meant was not 'government,' but president. These protesters are camped out at the Western White House, not 1 First Street, NE. Unless they're ashamed of the executive in another province of its power (like the regulation of food and drugs), being ashamed at the president's war effort undermines their support for the troops.